EXPLORE
Connect with your intimate self.
Uncover what turns you on.
Own your desires fully.
Let’s discover what excites you.
OVER 20 YEARS OF PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE WITH SEXUALITY AND GENDER IDENTITY EXPLORATION
MY OFFERINGS
COACHING
Build skills for a more satisfying life. Specialized coaching for anyone wanting to intimately connect with their gender and sexuality – including specialized services for LGBTQIA+, non-monogamy, alt sex practices, sex work, and neurodiversity. Couples and groups are welcome.
EDUCATION
Heighten your satisfaction. Approachable and highly informative online sexual wellness classes for adults. Topics include fabulous sex skills, BDSM play, and sex work success strategies. Private one-on-one and group classes are also available, in person or online.
CONSULTING
Incorporate a healthy perspective on sexuality and gender inclusivity into your business, organization, or events. Consulting services that promote respectful behaviors, safe spaces, appropriate boundaries, and a culture of informed consent.
COACHING
You deserve vibrance.
My mission is to inspire and motivate you on a path of passion and self-actualization. I’m here to help you express yourself, helping you gain greater awareness of your unique inner strengths. Here, your voice is heard.
You deserve fulfillment.
My role is to empower you in self-exploration with thoughtful validation. I'm here to help guide you in living a life that honors your wants and needs. Our sessions are centered in techniques of mindfulness, to build the growth you seek.
You deserve joy.
I offer you abundant support with the gentle encouragement of thoughtful accountability. Together, we’ll develop personalized goals for you to confidently live the authentic life you most desire, while celebrating all you accomplish.
This is a safe space for you to communicate openly with me about your needs and comfortably embrace your identity. Our sessions together are fully confidential and I assure you the protection of the utmost discretion.
EDUCATION
You deserve expertise.
My approach to teaching adult sex education is approachable, relatable - and highly entertaining. My online seminars and classes include a wealth of expert information developed based on best practices, honed from over two decades of professional experience. All of my educational offerings are queer-informed and LGBTQIA+ inclusive.
You deserve satisfaction.
Topics include a delicious array of sexual activities, ranging from classics like oral and anal to potentially fresh territory like electro stimulation and introductory kink. I also offer occasional special series such as DEEP KINK - covering BDSM, fetishes, and other alt sex practices - as well as IN THE INDUSTRY, which presents experienced-based information on the sex work industry.
You deserve fun.
I’m also available for private individual and group classes and interactive workshops, including special topics tailored perfectly to your specific requests. My enthusiasm about comfortably covering matters of sexual intimacy also brings a great atmosphere to your parties and other events.
CONSULTING
We deserve awareness.
I consult with businesses, organizations, educational institutions, and individuals to build awareness and advocacy. I offer specialized advice, analysis, guidance, and support in helping promote a fuller understanding of gender identity and adult sexuality, including LGBTQIA+, alternative sexualities, and sex work. I will help you develop strategies for implementing and maintaining a praxis that is respectfully informed and progressively inclusive.
We deserve inclusivity.
My consulting services are available for a plethora of needs. I work with medical care providers, therapists, and colleges in establishing protocols for working with diverse communities and subcultures. I provide advising within the adult industry to help professionals develop strategies for business success. I offer strategic planning for individuals and organizations hosting sex-positive events, for safer, inclusive, and more engaging experiences - including orgies and BDSM parties.
We deserve understanding.
It is my priority to create respectful and non-judgemental environments that honor our unique identities. My focus is on building communication and active listening, deconstructing misconceptions and biases, and developing an understanding of appropriate boundaries. My stellar reputation is based on years of consistently serving my communities with dedication, steadfastly operating under thorough ethical guidelines.
ABOUT ME
I'm a queer nonbinary demisexual kink practitioner with twenty years of professional experience in working with a wide range of expressions of human sexuality.
Along this path, I have served as a training consultant, performance coach, and professional dominatrix, with particular focus on personalized growth within goal-oriented client relationships. I have completed extensive lifestyle and professional alt sexuality training programs and workshops before moving into the role of an educator in these specialized areas myself.
It has been my pleasure to speak on sex work, kink, and BDSM at Columbia University, University of Texas, and University of Tennessee, as well as to contribute my knowledge within a wide range of classes centered for the sex work community. I have served as administrator and moderator for numerous related support groups and outreach programs, and as a consultant to a wide network of sex-positive mental health professionals.
I am a certified professional coach through City University New York. Please note that I am not a licensed therapist or a medical professional. Our focus is on therapeutic support with a focus on providing guidance and tools to enhance your personal growth and empowerment. I look forward to working together with you on your journey!
Warmly,
Jules Barry
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